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Anne Yvonne's avatar

I came to this from your comment on the Sabrina carpenter essay about sexuality. I LOVE how you bring in modern examples of men being celebrated for embracing femininity or female sexuality. It really shows how far the double standard goes.

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Aurelia's avatar

Indeed, women are routinely held to such double standards in policing, housing, parenting, education, health and literally all other sectors of their lives. That's why it's so important to consistently call these out and attempt to break down the patriarchal societies we live in. Glad you liked the examples I used, and thank you so much for commenting and subscribing! Welcome to FF! :)

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Miranda Saul's avatar

My top piece seems to be in conversation with this one!

https://miranda26.substack.com/p/the-body-is-and-is-not-mine

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Aurelia's avatar

Thank you, Miranda! I fully agree. I just read your piece and love the points you make, especially how you ended it: '... if your power depends on being looked at, it was never really yours.' 👏

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